What’s A Cultural tradition from another Country That You Wish Existed In Yours
This is an interesting question because it is the opposite of one I answered recently about the mistakes people make when visiting another country. In that answer, I responded as an American expat living in Brazil. This time, I will answer as an American who has experienced traditions and ways of life from another country that I wish we had more of back home.
I have experienced quite a few Brazilian traditions and customs that I have come to appreciate, but if I had to choose one, it would probably be the slower pace of life. Not slower in the sense that people do not work hard—they absolutely do—but there seems to be a greater appreciation for enjoying the moment rather than constantly rushing to the next thing.
I also like how important Christmas Eve is in Brazil. In the United States, Christmas Day tends to be the main event. In Brazil, Christmas Eve feels like a major celebration all by itself, with large family gatherings, food, conversation, and people staying up late together. It has a different atmosphere that I have really come to enjoy.
Another thing that fascinates me is the World Cup. Americans certainly love sports, but our attention is divided among football, baseball, basketball, hockey, and dozens of college teams. In Brazil, when the World Cup comes around, it feels different. The entire country seems to be emotionally invested. Businesses close, streets empty, televisions appear everywhere, and for a few hours it feels like the whole nation is pulling in the same direction. Even as an outsider, it is hard not to get caught up in the excitement.
And finally, my favorite cultural difference: restaurants do not bring you the bill until you ask for it. In the United States, sometimes it feels like the check arrives while you are still chewing your last bite. In Brazil, you can finish your meal, have another conversation, solve a few of the world’s problems, discuss football, and maybe order one more coffee before anyone even thinks about bringing the bill.
At first, I found it unusual. Now I find myself appreciating it. It reflects a broader attitude that meals are meant to be enjoyed, conversations are meant to last, and not everything has to be done at top speed.
If I could import one thing from Brazil to the United States, it would probably be that mindset: slow down a little, enjoy where you are, and don’t be in such a hurry to leave the table.
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