Do you set personal goals for yourself?


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Do you set personal goals for yourself?

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Personal Goals: Why I Never Made a Five-Year Plan

Oddly, this is something I never really did. I never sat down and said I have a two-year plan for this or a five-year plan for that.

If I had anything that resembled a goal at all, it was simply to stay employed and get paid.

I always went by the mindset that you do the job you have, and you do it well. If you do that and want something more, like a raise or a promotion, those opportunities will be there. Your efforts will put you in a position to apply for that next job, earn the raise, or get the bonus.

Sitting down and making a plan to achieve something in X number of years always seemed a bit counterproductive to me. I thought it could distract me from what I considered my main goals: staying employed and taking care of my family.

It’s the life in your years, An important thought from Lincoln

Now that I’m retired, I can look back and say that this approach worked pretty well for me. I didn’t have a detailed roadmap for my career or a list of milestones I had to reach by a certain age. I focused on the work in front of me, tried to do it well, and took advantage of opportunities when they came along.

Here is a view into my life journey

Maybe that isn’t the conventional approach, and maybe it isn’t what everyone would recommend. But we all find our own way through life. Mine worked for me, and I can’t complain about where it led.

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How about you? Have you always set personal goals, or have you taken things as they came and figured them out along the way?


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4 responses to “Do you set personal goals for yourself?”

  1. We are similar in this way. I always had/have ideas for what I’d like to do. I do struggle with the “if I had only pushed myself more” thought throughout my life script. The thing is though I did. In hindsight everything has worked out as it was supposed to.

    Great answer Kev!

    1. Yep, it is just the everyday effort, keep trying and stay focused on what we have to do. That is actually the goal. If we do that it works out pretty.
      “You can’t always get what you want
      But if you try sometimes well you might find
      You get what you need”
      — The Rolling Stones

      1. I have always sung that to my kids. It’s actually the definition of fairness too!

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    traciekato

    Hey, if it works for you then that’s all that matters.

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