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Quote of the Day – Benjamin Franklin

Benjamin Franklin

‘Money has never made man happy. The more one has, the more one wants.’


I thought this went well with yesterday’s quote, they fit nicely Epictetus:  “Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not.”

No matter how much money you make or how hard you chase that next raise, bonus, or promotion, it becomes a never‑ending loop. A hamster wheel in business‑casual clothing. I lived on that wheel for a long time.

I accumulated a mountain of stuff—so much that half the time I couldn’t remember why I bought any of it. Most of it had no meaning. Every year I’d say, “Let’s pay this off, and next year will be different.” Spoiler: it never was. More buying, more stuff, more convincing myself I needed more.

About ten years ago, something in me finally snapped—in a good way. I’d had enough. I stopped chasing.

At year‑end reviews, my boss would say, “Let’s go over your evaluation.” My response became, “Am I still getting paid, and do I still have a job next year?”

He’d say “yes”.

I’d say, “Great. Review over.”

I never read a single review after that. I stopped caring about climbing ladders I didn’t even want to be on. And you know what? I was happier. We even started downsizing, and life got lighter—physically and mentally.

Wanting to improve your life isn’t bad. But constantly wanting more is exhausting. The trick is perspective: knowing what actually matters and letting go of the rest. Turns out, peace takes up a lot less space than stuff.

Benjamin Franklin is quite the character for an original old school guy. If you would like to see my book review on his autobiography of Benjamin Franklin

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I spent 40 years in FinTech before retiring to Rio de Janeiro to trade software releases for a front-row seat to the beautiful absurdity of life in Brazil. This blog is my digital porch, a place for unpolished commentary on book reviews, daily gripes, and the random thoughts of a guy who finally has the time to pay attention. I’m an observant realist with a deep appreciation for history, a good quote, and the perspective that only comes after the career ends. I write to stay sharp, to stay honest, and to keep the conversation going. I love my Patriots and Bruins, a life long fan in bad times and good. They have been quite good for a long time now! I love spending time with my wife the best times are just doing nothing; watching tv, talking or just sitting at the beach together for a few hours. Our spot is pier 60 in Clearwater. I love the time I have with my kids when I can, they are all pretty busy. Seinfeld is about the best comedy ever. You will see me frequently comment on the show and why my blog is about nothing.

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About Kevin, I spent 40 years in FinTech before retiring to

Rio de Janeiro to trade software releases for a front-row seat

to the beautiful absurdity of life in Brazil. This blog is my digital

porch, a place for unpolished commentary on book reviews,

daily gripes, and the random thoughts of a guy who finally has

the time to pay attention. I’m an observant realist with a deep

appreciation for history, a good quote, and the perspective that

only comes after the career ends. I write to stay sharp, to stay

honest, and to keep the conversation going.


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2 responses to “Quote of the Day – Benjamin Franklin”

  1. Love this sometimes we forget that happiness isn’t in the next raise or the next thing. Peace really does take up less space than stuff.

    1. Sometimes less is more and slower is faster. Thanks you for your input.

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